Hello Gandolf – apparently what is happening is in the Planets! Can you advise me at all , or is it the Karma I have to deal with and make my own decisions?

No (M) it is also your Karma to have discovered your Spiritual side including your Connection with Me and the other Beings on the Spiritual Planes. I can tell you that your fears are groundless as things will work out extremely well without you needing to do a thing. Just be wary of not saying anything just now to your son and daughter as, with a lot of things, the situation will get magnified and there is really no need for that. Please trust Us to help you out with this – don’t fret – We Love you.