Please Gandolf – Mum’s here again, what should I do?

(M) – she is wanting to be with you as she couldn’t in the last years of her life. She is enjoying this time now so much.

Just let her be there and talk to her. She isn’t able to talk back at the moment and she is OK with that. She wants you to work on the poem and read it at the funeral service. She will be there supporting you – as we all will.

We are telling her how special you are and she says she knew it but didn’t know why – now she knows.