She needs help but not from you. In order to progress she needs to really sort out her issues. Keep her on a Mantra for a while – she can’t handle Initiation yet.
You are doing fine, the two of you, and are listening to our Words. Your bombshell will not be so big because of the letter but still opposition from those loyal to (Y). This you can manage – as soon as you are ‘up and running’ you won’t even be bothered about the negativity – just to let it wash over you. You are much stronger. Don’t have (K) back unless you are sure he will behave. You have more pressing things to occupy you. Please be aware of looking after yourselves physically. We can only help you so much.