Hello Gandolf – I believe Mum wants to say Hello.

Yes (M), she does. She has been watching how your family works and wants to advise you to be careful how you deal with the poem. Best, as (N) says, say what you want to do and stick to it. They won’t be too bothered on the day anyway.

She is also saying how proud she is of what you are doing. What lovely friends you have! What a great teacher you are! She knows how much you and (N) looked out for her. She is very happy to see her relatives again. Your father is there.

She didn’t know how wonderful it would be to die and wished she had done it earlier instead of hanging on! She loves you and (N). She is really happy where she is – tell people not to grieve on Friday but be glad she is free from her Earthly body. It’s such fun for her to meet her family and friends again.

She wants to say also that she will love being at her funeral, seeing everyone gathered around to say goodbye to her. She wishes she could be there in form to tell everyone how amazing it is up Here and not to be sad at all.