This is the Lords of Light.

In this situation (N) you need to follow your heart, how you felt when you were talking to this man raised alarm bells inside you. It is important also to learn from previous mishaps regarding doing an Initiation when you didn’t feel right about it.

There is no way you should have this man to your house next weekend to be Initiated. He does not deserve your valuable time and service, (M)’s also.

Leave him to carry on his own Path, whatever he chooses to do. Let him down gently, but be firm. He will realize at some point that he missed an amazing opportunity. This has happened to show you the measure of the man. He is not to be trusted, he lies!