What is our relationship with (J) based on past lives?

(J) and (N) had a lifetime as warriors; they were strong. They wanted power and got it. Then, in that lifetime they suddenly stopped fighting after realising the futility of war. They became hard working men on the land. It was hard for them because they had no money and needed to get by. (J) was already married to you (M) as a childhood sweetheart and (N) lived nearby.

You didn’t get together with him in that lifetime, but you both wanted to. But (N) and (J) had a great friendship, which went far beyond the bounds of normal friendship, as they both (you too) had a thirst for the occult. A lot of studying went on and scientific research which upturned the accepted science of the day. They got something published, but it wasn’t until years later that it finally got recognized.
 
We are the Lords of Light.
This important information needs to go on the Adepts site.
Much has been said about the arrival of the New Teacher and We have been preparing you for the event, which would give you much assistance in the spreading of the new Lightwave.

This is not going to happen in quite the way it had originally been planned, so We need to revise the original statements. Before this happens there will be several Spiritual Teachers around the world – you have already referred to them as Special People. They will Inititate and have complete Communication with Us and so will be able to confirm States. This way of organizing things will certainly be the best way to encourage people to Meditate for Higher States.