(N) this is Peter and others who wish to come to your aid.

Midlife is not called a ‘crisis’ for nothing. (J) is in some sort of bubble where he isn’t able to act sensibly or see things as they really are. He has this ‘dream’ of a future that in reality will not be as he thinks. Luckily he has time on his side and parents who can make him see clearly what he is doing.

He needs you (N) to really talk seriously to him and to lay things out for him to see the damage he will do to his daughter at such a tender age. He will miss her – she will miss him. He will sit on his boat and be very lonely, wondering what on Earth he is doing there.

He needs to be clear why he is doing this. What exactly is he escaping from? It’s all psychological. Now you have asked for Our help, We are only too happy to assist in any way We can.