When you are elevated to a Spiritual state, that gives you a purpose – it is so much easier to let go of Earthly things that trap you into thinking that you are Really important and that things Really matter. No they don’t!
This life is fleeting and people who play a big part in your lives are there so we can learn and let go. We ‘look down’ and we can see such tragic circumstances – but most of earthly concerns are made because people are trapped in their lives. It’s so simple really to bring oneself out of the illusion of matter – you need to Meditate. But not just Meditate – follow a Spiritual Path to Enlightenment.
(M) and (N) you are both important to this end.