Hello (N), (M) this is the Lords of Light.

(R) is busy mulling over what was said and might be said in the future. She doesn’t want to be pushed into anything, that’s the way she has learnt to protect herself.

Give her time, and (M) don’t worry about leaving her be at the moment. You need a break too. If you meet her just be very pleasant and kind, both of you. Also a good dose of humour.