Hello (M), (N) in answer to your heartfelt question (M) – why us?

(R) is an old Soul who has been around in Spiritual lives many times. The trouble was that, although she has achieved high States of Consciousness she used her power unwisely, hence a lifetime of illness, insecurity and self-doubt. Her lesson would be to rise above her obvious difficulties in order to help others, which she is more than capable of doing.

You (N) and (M) are there to somehow lift her from her self made mire in order to become whole again. Inside her, mostly well hidden, is a beautiful Soul trying desperately to emerge. She did take in what you both said to her today, and what has happened, although traumatic has made things easier for you all.