Lyla and Phaedra
We know you are very aware of certain aspects of dealing with your family circumstances. What you don’t know is what (S) is very much on your side now and will be a great ally in times to come. She understands a lot of what you are doing and wants to know more. Please don’t ever worry about anything to do with family, children or anything, as it is all being taken care of. You feel far away in distance, but distance in Spirit is nothing when you have Us to care about you.
With (L) things are slightly different in that she has such a full life that you are quite low down on her list for contacting, especially where she is now. She is fine at the moment, however her marriage is rocky – we shall see!When a person has been through the ‘Big Sleep’ they are cleansed and ready to merge with their Essence. Then, it really does depend on their Spiritual elevation. If they are Enlightened then their process is fairly straightforward in that they have many choices. Their learning becomes very much in the style they wish rather than being guided to do certain things. It is really hard to tell you because you have forgotten what happens and things are so much different than you could ever imagine in the Spirit World. We would love to take you there somehow, it is possible. If you try to tell people about what happens then they would be confused and it’s not really important to know these things.
What IS important is to try and elevate oneself Spiritually and try to elevate others too. That way your choices are so much greater when you die.
Why do we have to Learn?
Learning is all about letting go of earthly concerns – if you are learning you are consumed by what you are focussing on. Think about this – if your answers to questions are too long they will give rise to more questions, best to give short succinct answers and maybe give them a question or two to ponder. It doesn’t have to be all one way.