Can you explain how you seem to have retained your individuality rather than dissolve into your Essence. Is that what will happen to us?

DK
You have understood that each incarnate being will return to their Essence on death. For ease of understanding, My Essence is the Djwhal Khul Essence, a collective of Beings who wish to help the inhabitants on the Earth Plane.

Of course, My individuality has gone, just as yours will. Because you both have come a long way Spiritually in your present lives (and they aren’t over yet) your Essence will be on Higher Realms than before this incarnation.

Through deep prolonged Meditation, an Enlightened person can forge their Identity on much Higher Levels of Consciousness. Therefore on death their Freedom will be greater.